BOUDOIR HELPS YOU CONNECT TO YOURSELF
I’m making something of a big audacious claim below, but that’s just because it is true!
Knowing Yourself is a big part of successful connections to others.
Our connection with other people is only as solid and deep as our connection to ourselves.
In order for me to be connected to you, I have to know who I am. I have to be connected to myself.
And, I think what we end up doing is that we end up desperately searching for connection with other people when we have no idea of who we are.
— Brene Brown
There is so much to that quote. But, let’s place it in the context of our sensuality and the role of Boudoir in knowing ourselves.
Remember, sensuality is not the same as sexuality! Sensuality is relating to your body and your senses. It is, in part, knowing how you feel about your body and what you like about your body.
If you do not know who you are in terms of your sensuality
- what you like about your body,
- how you like to be seen,
- how you want to feel about yourself,
- how you look from different perspectives,
- how your perceptions of your body match up or do not match up to reality
you might find it challenging to have a deep intimacy with your partner around things that relate to sensuality. And yes, while not the same, Sensuality is related to Sexuality.
BOOM! That got your attention!
Go ahead - you can read that again!
Okay, here comes the big audacious claim about Boudoir Sessions:
A boudoir session is a tool that, done right, can help you go deeper into your knowledge of yourself and how you like to experience and express your own sensuality.
If you don’t know what you like about your body, how can you believe your partner when they tell you they like different aspects of your body?
Knowing yourself, learning to love your body, and understanding why someone else might think your body is stunningly beautiful is so important to making an authentic and positive physical connection in the most important relationship you’ve got.
Throw in the unique perspective we offer at Strong Confident Femininity - the Feminine Gaze perspective of how you want to be seen - and suddenly, you see yourself with a deeper knowledge of how worthy your are!
The fact is, the experience of a boudoir session, and the tangible proof provided by a collection of absolutely stunning images, goes a long way to helping you relate to yourself in a positive way.
When you know you are beautiful, you can take that part of you and share it with an intimate partner in a way that you never have before. The relationship becomes deeper and more meaningful because your perspective on yourself has changed.
Believe me, others will notice that change!
ABOUT STRONG CONFIDENT FEMININITY:
Susan Beth of Strong Confident Femininity, is a boudoir photographer with a unique perspective. She photographs you how you want to be seen, instead of how you think your partner wants to see you. Because that’s the way you will feel best about your images and yourself. She celebrates the uniqueness and intimate beauty of your strong confident femininity with flattering, tasteful, and stunning boudoir photographs.